Value 01
Body Positivity Without Performance
We celebrate bodies as they are, not as they should be marketed. No airbrushing in our photography, no “before” language in our copy, and no upsells that imply you need fixing to be lovable.
About NewLoveOnline · Est. 2026
About NewLoveOnline: A Size-Inclusive Dating Platform
NewLoveOnline is the size-inclusive dating platform where body-confident singles meet partners who lead with kindness, curiosity, and chemistry. We exist so that nobody has to apologise for their body to find love.
91,569+ global members · 2,800 active weekly in the US · Email-only signup
- Email-Only Signup
- One-Click Delete
- AI Moderated
- 100% Discreet
- No Data Selling
Our Mission
Dating Where Small Is Beautiful
Our mission is to make size-inclusive dating feel ordinary. We believe that physical compatibility is built in conversation, not measured at the door, and that the smallest demographic in mainstream dating advertising deserves the largest welcome here.
Every product decision passes a single test: does this make a body-confident single feel safer, kinder to themselves, or more likely to have a great first conversation? If the answer is no, it does not ship.
“Dating where small is beautiful.” - SEXTECHGUIDE on size-inclusive dating
Our Story
How NewLoveOnline Started
NewLoveOnline was founded in early 2026 by a small team of dating-product builders, community moderators, and body-positive writers who had watched friends quietly delete mainstream apps after one too many size-related rejections. We started by interviewing 240 singles across the United States, the United Kingdom, and the Netherlands, and a single sentence kept coming back: “I want to be seen as a whole person before anyone gets out a ruler.”
NOTE
A note on the broader movement
“There’s pressure on all genders to conform to ideals set by TV, film and even porn. The adult entertainment industry only casts males with well over average-sized penises. In addition, adverts on major porn sites advertise dubious products to increase penis size. All of this makes a man already insecure about his size even more self-conscious.” - David Minns, founder of the size-inclusive dating movement.
That insight became our founding principle: build a platform where everyone on the site is fully aware, so members can focus on shared interests rather than scripts and disclosure anxiety. We launched in March 2026 with five tightly curated communities - Small Penis Fetish, Small Penis Men, Small Penis Sex, Small Penis Club, and Small Penis Chat - and a free-forever tier that has been free forever ever since.
Our Values
Values That Shape Every Decision
Three principles guide every product spec, moderation call, and marketing line. They are not slogans - they are the way we make tradeoffs when something is hard.
Value 02
Inclusivity Across Every Identity
NewLoveOnline is fully inclusive - open to men, women and transgender people of all sexualities. Members specify exactly who they want to date, and a unique search tool filters results to find compatible matches.
Value 03
Discretion as a Default, Not an Upsell
Email-only signup, no public profile URLs, no Google indexing of member content, and a one-click delete that actually deletes. Privacy is not a premium tier here - it is the floor.
Our Team
The People Behind the Platform
A small, deliberately cross-disciplinary team. Three of us have built dating products before; two come from sex-positive media and community work; one is a former trust-and-safety lead at a major social network.
Co-Founder & CEO
Aria Mendoza
Former dating-product lead with a decade in inclusive tech. Aria sets the product compass and writes most of the words you read on the homepage.
Head of Trust & Safety
Naomi Park
Former trust-and-safety lead. Naomi writes the moderation playbook and trains every human reviewer on consent-first language and de-escalation.
Community Editor
Devon Carter
Sex-positive writer and former columnist. Devon edits the dating advice blog and hosts our member AMAs.
Lead Engineer
Lena Whitfield
Builds the discreet stack - encrypted messaging, photo revoke, and the one-click delete that genuinely deletes within 24 hours.
Our Community in Numbers
Verified figures from our platform data and an independent May 2026 review by Dating Scout.
91,569+
Global Members
NewLoveOnline platform data, May 2026
2,800
Active Weekly (US)
Dating Scout review, May 2026
42% / 58%
Female / Male Split
Dating Scout review, May 2026
25-34
Core Age Range
Dating Scout review, May 2026
In the Press
As Featured In
Coverage from independent reviewers and sex-positive publications that have taken a careful look at the size-inclusive dating space.
- Dating Scout
- SEXTECHGUIDE
- Slate Dating
- The Guardian Lifestyle
- Body Positive Weekly
Member Voices
What Members Say
Three verified members on why the platform feels different from anything else they tried.
I joined expecting another niche corner of the internet and found a genuinely warm community. Customer support replied to a question in under two hours, on a Sunday.
Hannah
Portland, 28
Verified Member
The team clearly thinks about consent and discretion the way good architects think about exits. Everything has a door I can walk out of, and I have never felt the need to.
Theo
Chicago, 35
Verified Member
Being able to specify exactly who I am open to dating, and to trust the filter, has saved me weeks of awkward conversations. That alone is worth the membership.
Mira
Brooklyn, 30
Verified Member
Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions About NewLoveOnline
Direct answers to the questions visitors most often ask on the About page.
What is NewLoveOnline in one sentence?
NewLoveOnline is a size-inclusive dating platform where body-confident singles - men, women, transgender and non-binary members of all sexualities - meet partners who lead with kindness and chemistry rather than physical measurements.
Who founded NewLoveOnline?
NewLoveOnline was founded in early 2026 by a cross-disciplinary team led by Aria Mendoza (CEO), with Naomi Park leading trust and safety, Devon Carter editing the community, and Lena Whitfield leading engineering. The team draws on a decade of combined experience in dating products, sex-positive media, and platform safety.
Is NewLoveOnline open to women, transgender, and non-binary members?
Yes. NewLoveOnline is fully inclusive - open to men, women and transgender people of all sexualities. Members can specify the gender of people they want to date, and a unique search tool filters results to find compatible matches.
How is the company funded?
NewLoveOnline is independently funded by its founders and revenue from the optional $9.99/month Premium plan. We have never accepted advertising, we do not sell member data, and we are not owned by a larger dating conglomerate.
How do I contact the team?
The fastest route is the in-app help button, which is monitored 24/7 by our trust-and-safety team and typically replies within two hours. Press, partnership, and policy inquiries can also be sent via the contact options listed in our FAQ page.
Where can I learn more before signing up?
Start with our 2026 small penis dating guide for an overview, then explore the five category pages from the main menu to see which community fits you best.